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14th Oct 2025

Rites of Passage and Pouring into Your Sons with Alok Appadurai

Michael Diamond sits down with Alok Appadurai to unpack real-world rites of passage, the power of acknowledgment, nervous system regulation, and upgrading the "invisible operating system" that silently runs a man's life. You'll learn a simple, powerful rite of passage you can run this month, the three A's (Awareness, Acknowledgment, Action), how to "repeat to imprint" so your words land deep, why asking for help is strength not weakness, nervous system regulation for fathers, partners, and leaders, and how to upgrade your Invisible OS across spiritual, emotional, physical, financial, and relational mastery. Expect practical frameworks you can apply with your son, your partner, your team, and yourself.

Chapters:

- 00:00:00 – Welcome

- 00:07:35 – The backstory: sobriety as a father's first rite of passage

- 00:10:10 – Designing a rite of passage with AI… then trusting presence

- 00:21:37 – The ceremony: chairs, sage, sunlight, acknowledgment

- 00:22:10 – Pouring in without pumping ego: "repeat to imprint"

- 00:25:00 – Say what your father didn't: sex, body, money, women, power

- 00:29:20 – Men are parched for acknowledgment: how to water the soul

- 00:34:00 – Taming ego while building a sturdy core self

- 00:40:50 – Invisible Operating System: finding and removing malware

- 00:47:30 – Asking for help fast: rewiring the lone-wolf myth

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About the Podcast

IgKnight the King
Join Dr. Michael Diamond as he dive into the heart of masculinity and personal growth on the IgKnight the King podcast. Each episode unpacks the trials and triumphs that men face today with unflinching honesty and a touch of humor. From redefining manhood in our changing world to overcoming personal barriers and finding one’s mission, this show is a beacon for any man eager to challenge himself and grow. Whether discussing the pillars of kingship or the nuances of relationships and self-identity, Michael offers not just insights but real, actionable steps to inspire change. Tune in to transform how you navigate your path and to connect with a community committed to doing the work, side by side.

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